If you want to have positive attitude and success as a result of it, liking yourself and loving who you are is an essential part of the process. Unless you learn to accept and love yourself, it will be hard for you to live a fulfilling life because you will continue being dissatisfied with everything you do and what other people do for you.
It is super important that you take small steps every single day to become a better person…someone you will like and be proud of. This is easier said than done, of course, and is an ongoing goal you should continuously work on.
Just because it is tough, doesn’t mean you should quit. The result is SO worth it! All you have to do is keep moving forward one step at a time.
Let me share with you a couple of things you can do to become a better version of yourself. Keep in mind that this process is not about making yourself likeable to others, but becoming someone YOU will love and adore, which is a huge help with positive thinking and success.
- Be committed to your self-growth. Personal growth is an important aspect of becoming a better person. There are many ways you can grow, be it in your personal or career life. It’s all a matter of finding your purpose and developing subconscious mind affirmations so you may fulfill it.
- Do something about your negative traits. What do you dislike about yourself? Do you think you’re sometimes arrogant, impatient, selfish, critical, harsh, lazy, and so on? Whatever it is you don’t like about yourself, you need to identify them. That’s the only way you can work on them so you could be a better person. Be brutally honest with yourself
- Know your ideal self.3. So you’ve decided you need to change, but to be whom? Ask yourself what your ideal self is like. Write down all the traits of the person you want to be so you may start living true to your ideal persona. Practice those traits as often as you can.
- Be a better human to other people. This doesn’t mean you have to do a lot of charity work (but it will help if you can). For you to like yourself more, you should try to be a better partner to your better half; a better parent to your children; a better child to your parents; a better sibling; a better employee; and a better friend. When you know that you are doing good to other people, you will have a huge reason to like yourself a lot.
- Be willing to be helped or coached. There is always something you can learn from other people, regardless of their age, gender, or background. Working with an experienced life coach can also give you a huge help with positive thinking, becoming a better person, and eventually being successful not only in your career, but in your life in general.
Remember the most important part is to take ACTION. Thinking about it is not enough.
Here’s to a better YOU!
Enjoy
Kenneth